January 18, 2009

Barack Obama: Letter to My Daughters

Parade Magazine is publishing a touching letter where Barack Obama reveals his hopes and dreams for daughters Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7.

Dear Malia and Sasha,
I know that you've both had a lot of fun these last two years on the campaign trail, going to picnics and parades and state fairs, eating all sorts of junk food your mother and I probably shouldn't have let you have. But I also know that it hasn't always been easy for you and Mom, and that as excited as you both are about that new puppy, it doesn't make up for all the time we've been apart. I know how much I've missed these past two years, and today I want to tell you a little more about why I decided to take our family on this journey.

When I was a young man, I thought life was all about me-about how I'd make my way in the world, become successful, and get the things I want. But then the two of you came into my world with all your curiosity and mischief and those smiles that never fail to fill my heart and light up my day. And suddenly, all my big plans for myself didn't seem so important anymore. I soon found that the greatest joy in my life was the joy I saw in yours. And I realized that my own life wouldn't count for much unless I was able to ensure that you had every opportunity for happiness and fulfillment in yours. In the end, girls, that's why I ran for President: because of what I want for you and for every child in this nation.

I want all our children to go to schools worthy of their potential-schools that challenge them, inspire them, and instill in them a sense of wonder about the world around them. I want them to have the chance to go to college-even if their parents aren't rich. And I want them to get good jobs: jobs that pay well and give them benefits like health care, jobs that let them spend time with their own kids and retire with dignity.

I want us to push the boundaries of discovery so that you'll live to see new technologies and inventions that improve our lives and make our planet cleaner and safer. And I want us to push our own human boundaries to reach beyond the divides of race and region, gender and religion that keep us from seeing the best in each other.

Sometimes we have to send our young men and women into war and other dangerous situations to protect our country-but when we do, I want to make sure that it is only for a very good reason, that we try our best to settle our differences with others peacefully, and that we do everything possible to keep our servicemen and women safe. And I want every child to understand that the blessings these brave Americans fight for are not free-that with the great privilege of being a citizen of this nation comes great responsibility.

That was the lesson your grandmother tried to teach me when I was your age, reading me the opening lines of the Declaration of Independence and telling me about the men and women who marched for equality because they believed those words put to paper two centuries ago should mean something.

She helped me understand that America is great not because it is perfect but because it can always be made better-and that the unfinished work of perfecting our union falls to each of us. It's a charge we pass on to our children, coming closer with each new generation to what we know America should be.

I hope both of you will take up that work, righting the wrongs that you see and working to give others the chances you've had. Not just because you have an obligation to give something back to this country that has given our family so much-although you do have that obligation. But because you have an obligation to yourself. Because it is only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you will realize your true potential.

These are the things I want for you-to grow up in a world with no limits on your dreams and no achievements beyond your reach, and to grow into compassionate, committed women who will help build that world. And I want every child to have the same chances to learn and dream and grow and thrive that you girls have. That's why I've taken our family on this great adventure.

I am so proud of both of you. I love you more than you can ever know. And I am grateful every day for your patience, poise, grace, and humor as we prepare to start our new life together in the White House.

Love, Dad

Beyond the content ... imagine the positive example that Barack Obama sets by taking time to write out his thoughts for his children. He didn't send them a text message. He didn't record his thoughts on YouTube. He didn't write them an email.

He went ol' school. He wrote them a letter. They won't understand the full significance of his words for many years ... but, they will have this letter to give them context for what he is getting ready to do.

Villagers, especially the Dads ... when is the last time that we WROTE A LETTER to our children? Not a Hallmark card. A real letter? That is the positive example that Obama gives each of us.

I'm going to learn from this example. I'm going to write an ol' school letter to my children. How about you?


Viqi French said...

So true, it'll be a very long time before those girls will feel the weight of their father's wish and this moment.

Villager said...

Viqi - It seems to be another indication of the long-range thinking and vision of our incoming president...

SjP said...

This man never ceases to amaze me...never! I look so forward to the years ahead...

I'm so moved and full this weekend watching the road to the White House. Just can't stop crying!

Villager said...

Sojourner - I'm ready for a 4-8 year journey with our new President. He can break so many barriers in our minds just by being who he is. This letter to his daughters is just one example. The day of volunteering on MLK's holiday is another example...

Monica Roberts said...


Fasten your seat belts, folks. It's going to be an interesting ride in the next 4-8 years.

Villager said...

Monica - I agree with you. Already, the president is using his office as a 'bully pulpit' with the energy he placed into making MLK Day a 'day of service'. I see him on television painting a shelter. Michelle is also engaged in service today. Our former president would have issued a memo on MLK Day. This president is getting the American public engaged. That is a beautiful thing...